I dunno what to label this…so I juz put it under Ma Vie. Until my “chief editor”(Dee) said that I am back to standard…I not gonna tag anything I wrote to “Free My Mind” blog
Have you ever wonder if the person that you’re in love with, the person you ARE physically with. He/She have never really and was never really in love with you?
Strange question to ask? I am not really that sure. I was just wondering…if a person is really in love with you, does it really mean “till death do us part”? If this is so, then why do we have divorce? And why do we have breakups? Doesn’t love means, going through happiness/sadness…joy and laughter together?
If a guy really love a girl then why do guys still or sometimes…have a fling or maybe sleep around? Same scenario goes for a girl. Does it mean that we’re in love with our partner but then physically we’re still attracted to other people? I couldn’t really figure it out. I always thought that love will means that…the most beautiful being, will be the person who you fall in love with.
And have you ever wonder after a breakups that the person who claims to love you. Doesn’t he/she really mean it? I guess you bound to ponder why have it ended? And I guess, you will go through that reflection period…and somehow, just somehow…something might just hit you. You just asked yourself, this same old question. And I guess, the scariest answer might be that he/she never really did.
Dee Yan said,
Friday, 2 October 2009 at 2:01 pm
I have pondered abt it. Neither have I come to any conclusion. The world revolves around so many things and what you mentioned is just one of the norm. Sad to say it, but it is normal. Some concludes, its just men being men, women being women.
The world is a stage, we are the players. If such thing doesn’t happen, it might be a boring place to live in …don’t ya think?
Picture this, watching F1 race, 61 laps without any pitstops or race car crashing, no safety car to get them back in line, no demerits…its plain speed driving for 61 rounds…where’s the fun in that right?
This is the life we have….treasure it, no matter how it may seem. Only we can shape it. No one else. I learn that from you.
jingsiyan said,
Wednesday, 21 October 2009 at 5:50 pm
yeah… agreed! After some time I realise I had missed alot of things in your life… things do happen no matter whether you are bother by it. You may be madly in love with him/her and he likewise… but another couple near you will be cheating on each other… this goes round and round. I am victim before and I make other victim before… sometimes it is simply beyond the person’s control. I guess now what matters is you love yourself… for me… I love myself. I never learn this till after many incidents happen in my life, some of which you went through with me, which you pull me out from the scary dark cold deep well. My heart bleeds but it will also heal… suddently I remember my fav Micheal Jackson’s song : Heal the world make it a better place, for you and for me and the entire human race…
I love myself, I heal myself, I will therefore shape my life… Only I know what lies ahead for me. I chose my path to happiness and I did not come the easy way… I fall and bleed and cried and almost… lost myself which scare you all upside down… Now I realise I have a mission in life – to love myself and live my life! and you and Dee Yan I believe you both also as strong as me, better be stronger than me… MUCK!